A Time of Reflection during Lent

During February we begin a spiritual time of reflection. In many churches there will be the occasion on Ash Wednesday to begin Lent with the imposition of ashes. This is the lighting of the Palm crosses from last year and the placing of a cross in ash on the forehead. Repentance and ashes are biblical, spoken of in scripture and this is a good thing to do. It is a sign of the life of the cross, the acceptance of all that owning that cross can bring. Through this commitment we have access to spiritual growth and healing.

Lent is a time to be penitent and to seek God’s will for our life as surely as Jesus sought God’s direction in the wilderness. We live our lives under the shadow of the cross and this is a good time to consider what the implications of that are. It is a time to say to God ‘teach me afresh, where am I going wrong, how do you want me to change?’

In the Old Testament ashes were a sign of sorrow at having let God down they were a demonstration of looking for the new direction and being sorry for what was in the past. They were a sign of repentance and looking forward. The Christian response is of course to see the new direction for us all in the cross and we make the ashes into the sign of the cross. That is where we come to find God’s forgiveness and direction for our lives.

One of life’s special gifts is that it provides us with countless experiences that help keep things in perspective. We visit a hospital and see people enduring great physical suffering and suddenly the fact that we have the flu doesn’t seem so monumental. We view documentaries about famine striking people all over the world and consequently the burnt toast is not catastrophic. We read news of whole societies suffering under repressive dictatorships, and the need to obey a 30mph speed limit over the bumps down the High Street does not so much fray our nerves.

People with wealth and influence die and are cremated. Power, ambition, worries, hassles, manipulations, and posturing are all reduced to a carton of ashes. The point of citing this is not to make us morbid, but to prompt us to reflect. Lent begins with ashes, because ashes can put things into perspective. On Ash Wednesday, we acknowledge our mortality, that all things will pass, and that we too will pass. None of us is indispensable. Family goes on, the economy goes one, the job goes on-life will go on, without us.

“You are dust, and to dust you shall return” (Genesis 3:19).

Lent is a time to reflect on matters that we might not reflect on at other times of the year. It is a time for putting things back into perspective, for taking a good look at ourselves, at what we have become, and at what we are doing with our lives. Ashes provide us with a perspective about what counts and what doesn’t. Ashes also inform us that our time is limited and that we should take advantage of the time we have left to continue our spiritual development.

We welcome Lent, therefore, with ashes for the opportunities it will afford us to clear our vision and reset our sights. We have much to do before we turn to dust. Lent is a time for tough questions. Where are you going in life? What are you doing with yourself? What kind of priorities do you live by? What changes should you need to make to ensure a more worthwhile life for yourself? What should you become more serious about? Less serious about? Are you preoccupied and overly concerned with trivia? Do you get angry over petty things? Do you lose sleep over matters that have little lasting import? Do you need to push yourself more on worthwhile projects? Do you need to slow down? Think in terms of ashes and see if it doesn’t change your perspective.

A Christian’s View of Valentine’s Day: Love,Faith, and Modern Celebration

The relationship between Christianity and Valentine’s Day runs deeper than many realize, rooted in both historical significance and spiritual meaning. As we approach this celebrated day of love, it’s worth exploring how Christians can meaningfully engage with this holiday while staying true to their faith.

The Sacred Origins
The story begins with Saint Valentine, a Roman priest who lived in the 3rd century AD. According to historical accounts, Valentine was a clergy member who ministered to persecuted Christians and was martyred for his faith. His legacy of sacrificial love became the foundation for what we now celebrate as Valentine’s Day.

The Catholic Church records tell us that Valentine was imprisoned for marrying Christian couples and aiding Christians who were being persecuted by the Roman Empire. His commitment to love and marriage, even in the face of persecution, exemplifies the Christian virtues of courage and sacrificial love.

A Christian Perspective on Modern Celebration
For today’s Christians, Valentine’s Day presents both opportunities and considerations. While there is no biblical reason why Christians should not celebrate Valentine’s Day by giving flowers, candy, or cards,many believers choose to view it as an opportunity to demonstrate Christ-like love in broader ways.

Here are meaningful ways Christians can celebrate Valentine’s Day:

1. Celebrate God’s Love: Remember that God’s love is the perfect model of what we celebrate on this day. The holiday can serve as a reminder of the greatest love story – God’s love for humanity.
2. Express Broader Love: While romantic love is beautiful, Christians can use this day to show love to family members, friends, and even strangers, reflecting Christ’s command to love one another.
3. Practice Sacrificial Love: Following Saint Valentine’s example of selfless service, consider ways to show love through acts of service and sacrifice.
4. Share the Message: Some Christians make Valentine’s Day an evangelistic opportunity, using it to demonstrate how Christian marriages and relationships can reflect God’s love to the world.

Balancing Tradition and Faith
While the modern celebration of Valentine’s Day has become largely commercialized, Christians can choose to focus on its deeper meaning. The day can be an opportunity to reflect on 1 Corinthians 13’s beautiful description of love – patient, kind, and selfless.

From its origins in Christian martyrdom to today’s expressions of affection, Valentine’s Day holds a special place in Christian tradition. While some may choose not to celebrate it, others find meaningful ways to incorporate their faith into the celebration. The key is remembering that all love ultimately flows from God, and any celebration of love can be an opportunity to honor Him.

Whether through simple cards and gifts or more profound expressions of Christian love, Valentine’s Day can be a beautiful reminder of both human and divine love. As Christians celebrate, they can do so knowing that they’re part of a tradition that began with faith, sacrifice, and the purest form of love.

A Recipe for the New Year

Take twelve whole months.

Clean them thoroughly of all bitterness, hate, and jealousy.

Make them just as fresh and clean as possible.

Now cut each month into twenty-eight, thirty, or thirty-one different parts, but don’t make up the whole batch at once.

Prepare it one day at a time out of these ingredients.

Mix well into each day one part of faith, one part of patience, one part of courage, and one part of work.

Add to each day one part of hope, faithfulness, generosity, and kindness.

Blend with one part prayer, one part meditation, and one good deed.

Season the whole with a dash of good spirits, a sprinkle of fun, a pinch of play, and a cupful of good humour.

Pour all of this into a vessel of love.

Cook thoroughly over radiant joy, garnish with a smile, and serve with quietness, unselfishness, and cheerfulness.

You’re bound to have a happy new year

Silent Night

It was the night before Christmas 1818, in the little village of Oberndorf, Austria. Joseph Mohr, the vicar, had just read the Christmas passage from Luke chapter 2, when a few verses inspired by the reading came into his mind. It would be pleasant, he thought, if they could be used at the Christmas Eve service, and so he called on the organist and handed him the verses.

Franz Gruber, the organist, thereupon composed a tune to which the verses could be sung and that was how one of the greatest Christmas carols – Silent Night – was created.

That evening, the organ broke down but, not to be outdone, the vicar and the organist sang the hymn as a duet. There the story might have ended had it not been for the organ. When the instrument had been repaired, the organist sat down to test it and played the tune composed by Gruber. He liked it and asked for a copy, which he took back to his home town. There a ladies’ choir added it to their repertoire and it was included when they sang in other towns as well.

Gradually it became known by more and more people and it increased in popularity until today it must surely be the most frequently sung Christmas carol. Moreover, it is sung, not only in the language in which it was first written, but it has been translated into others too, so that, all over the world, people are united at Christmas in singing Silent Night in their own language.

We hope you have a blessed Christmas.

Thanksgiving Every Day – How Gratitude Attracts More Abundance

Why wait for Thanksgiving to show your appreciation? You have the opportunity to enjoy your life with joy every single day. Therefore, make it a priority to celebrate your blessings and remind yourself that expressing gratitude for what you already possess creates space for even more abundance in your life. Here are five ways that gratitude can attract greater wealth into your life:

1. You’ll become grateful for the small things. When you maintain a positive mindset, you’ll begin to recognize and appreciate the little things. The most profound blessings often come in the smallest forms. As you learn to love, recognize, and be thankful for the small aspects of life, your overall quality of life will improve because you will realize how fortunate you truly are. For instance, your child gifting you a drawing that says, “Number one mama!” or your partner bringing home your favorite ice cream are moments worthy of gratitude. Your child sees you as a star, and you are blessed with a caring partner—how amazing is that!

2. You will cultivate remarkable intuition. If you regularly reflect on the positive occurrences in your life, you’ll be adept at identifying good opportunities from a distance. For instance, you might sense an opportunity in the workshop or a chance to bond more closely with your family. Actively seeking new opportunities to enhance your life and that of your loved ones will fill your heart with joy.

3. Supporting those in need. When you appreciate the bed you sleep in, the roof that protects your family from harsh weather, the loved ones gathered around you, and the food on your table, you truly grasp your good fortune. Consequently, you are more inclined to seize chances to assist someone who is less fortunate. Even the smallest effort on your part could significantly impact another’s life. Helping your neighbor with his groceries might enable him to provide for his family. Donating your old clothes can keep someone homeless warm, and participating in a charity walk for cancer could give someone else a chance to survive. Helping others ultimately helps you in countless ways.

4. You’ll achieve more. Your gratitude is itself a blessing. When you express thanks, you gain a deeper appreciation for life. You start to see each day as a new opportunity to bring more joy into your life and future. It’s perfectly natural to appreciate what you have while also striving for more. Continually improving your circumstances is beneficial for both you and your family.

5. Being considerate of others. When you are content with your life and genuinely happy, you tend to treat others with kindness. You might find yourself holding the door open for a stranger or picking up a dropped item for an elderly person. Your own happiness amplifies when you contribute to the happiness of others. Life starts to change for the better when you acknowledge how blessed you genuinely are.

Even the smallest acts can elevate your spirit. The challenges faced by others can inspire you to offer assistance, making life appear noticeably brighter. Starting today, elevate your positive mindset and turn every day into a personal day of thanksgiving

What Are Random Acts of Kindness & Why Do They Matter

You’ve probably been the recipient of a random act of kindness in your lifetime. Think back to an instance in which someone has helped you out of a tough situation when they could see you were having difficulty or when a friend simply paid you a compliment out of the blue. A sweet surprise like this can really make a difference. Did you also know such experiences can also be good for your health and overall well-being? It’s true. A random act of kindness can be a good deed, caring word, selfless act or small gift. Even a smile can brighten someone’s day. Take a look at some of the benefits of random acts of kindness.

Encourage Gratitude
Doing something nice for someone else can make you feel grateful for your blessings. This is especially true when the recipient of your act is less fortunate than you or in a tough spot. When you realize you’re able to give even the smallest bit of yourself to someone else, it shines perspective on the abundance you have in your life.

Lower Stress
Stepping out of ourselves in order to focus on someone else is another great way to gain renewed perspective. Plus, doing good just makes you feel better. It releases feel-good hormones and increases your happiness. Suddenly, your troubles may seem a bit less burdensome.

Improved Mood
Numerous studies have shown a positive effect on mood when people engage in random acts of kindness. You’re bound to feel better about life in general when you do good deeds. Improved mood, less anxiety and higher energy levels have all been linked to the performance of random acts of kindness. In fact, research has demonstrated that the pleasure and reward centers of the brain actually light up in those who perform these acts in much the same way as they respond in the recipients. It even has a name, and that’s “helper’s high.”

Less Pain
You might even feel physically better when you practice kindness. It’s been proven that endorphins are released in the brain after doing something for someone else. Endorphins are hormones produced in the brain and nervous system. They’re often referred to as natural painkillers for their pain reducing abilities.

Better Relationships
When you do something nice for another person, they will naturally recall that act with fondness. Random acts of kindness promote good feelings among people and increase connections. These bonds can lead to better relationships and lasting positive interpersonal results.

These are merely a handful of the rewards that come from doing random acts of kindness. Remember, it doesn’t matter how small the gesture. Doing good always makes a positive difference to both the giver and the recipient.

Prayer strengthens my faith.

I speak with God during my high times and my low times. Prayer keeps my relationship with God solid and increases my belief in His power.

Inviting God into my life is the norm for me. I speak to Him through my spirit and also my words. Having regular conversations with Him tightens our bond. It reminds me that He always provides guidance once I reach out to Him.

Prayer leads me to place my trust in the heavenly Father instead of myself. It takes me to a point of consciousness where I know the source of my strength.

Any financial challenge that I face is manageable when I pray. Talking to God allows me to release myself from the burden. When I open my eyes, I feel instantly lighter. God passes with flying colors whenever I put Him to the test.

Sometimes I am unable to see the way in front of me. But when I see things unfold and appear before me, I praise God immediately for His blessings.

Each answered prayer reinforces my trust. I believe that anything that I take to Him is already resolved. When the outcome is different from my request, I understand His message.

Today, talking to God reinforces my belief in His control over my life. His guidance is unmistakable. I use my regular conversations with God to guide me through this life.

Self-Reflection Questions:

  1. How do I know when my prayers are answered?
  2. How much of my prayer time is dedicated to giving thanks?
  3. What are some of the blessings that appear through my faith in God?

Unleashing the Power of Friendship: James’ Inspirational Story of Faith and Service

James had no friends. He felt as though no one even wanted to be around him.

At church, it seed like no one wanted to shake his hand. At work, he was the last one his supervisor asked for new ideas. “What’s wrong with me?” he asked himself. “I’m pretty sure I don’t have some kind of weird disease.”

James went to the local YMCA to work out at least three days a week. He was almost always by himself. He tried to join in group activities. In fact he tried pickle ball. The other players sort of pushed him aside because he didn’t know how to play. It seemed no one wanted to take the time to coach him a long. “I’m lonely all the time,” he confided in Bill the custodian.

However, what James didn’t know he had lots of friends. In fact, they all wanted to be considered his best friend. At church, everyone wanted to shake his hand, at the YMCA they would invite him to participate in various activities. At work, he was asked for his input on a procedure or how to run the office more effectively.

James wasn’t just a friend in name only. He went out of his way to help people and put others first before himself. Here’s an example, he would buy a family down on their luck groceries before buying any for himself.

James and his best friend Robert, always went out of their way to help others. “We don’t always ask, we just do what needs to be done.” said Robert.

“That’s right,” said James. “We ask, ‘What can we do for our friends?”

James and Robert were known to family members and neighbors, if you needed help with something you could call the “boy’s”. One day they decided to clean some vacant lots in their neighborhood. The lots had old tires and garage strewn all about. Before long many of their friends joined the cause.

Local media caught wind of the cleanup.. They found them working on their third vacant lot.

TV reporter asked James, “Why are you doing this?” James replied that the village had limited funds for a project like this and they just wanted to help out.

A newspaper reporter asked what it meant to have his friends help with the cleanup.

“Friends can inspire and encourage and help you reach a common goal, like cleaning up these vacant properties”. James went on to say, “Friendship very important to a person’s well being, and being friendly to others exemplifies my faith,”.

James quoted Proverbs 18:24, “”One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother “

James concluded, “At the end of the day, being a friend, and helping others without hesitation, helps me to show them the love of God. And with some people that could almost be a full-time job!”